Why....why can't men be alone? If they aren't busy screwing one..(or more) women, they are busy running from one woman to the next...
*rolls eyes*

Why do men settle for something they can have at that moment, instead of waiting for the right one?

I have been single since the last disaster, and I'll be darned if I'm going to jump the next train that comes along, just to say I am not alone...
I can be alone...I was alone 3 years before the last one, and I can be alone 3 more...if that's what it takes...to figure out if the next guy is worth my time...

I thought I made a good choice last time, and boy was I fooled...
lied to right to my face...and my gut knew...so you can best be sure if my instinct tells me it's crap next time...I'm going to listen!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

Slower is better

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”

A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”

You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your won set of friends separate from his

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you

If something bothers you, speak up

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later

YOU CANNOT CHANGE A MAN’S BEHAVIOR. CHANGE COMES FROM WITHIN

Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are….even if he has more education or in a better job

Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are

Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you

All men are NOT dogs

You should not be the one doing all the bending….compromise is a two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships….there is nothing cute about baggage….Deal with you issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you….a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals….look for someone complimentary….not supplementary.

Dating is fun….even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes…..when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted

Never move into his mother’s house

Never co-sign for a man

Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)….You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her/his choices, and another woman prepare, and make men aware.

****I sure wish I had read this before my last relationship......